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Every child learns differently. But for some children, especially those who are neurodivergent, the learning journey can feel like taking one step forward and three steps back. Whether it's trouble learning to read, write, count, or focus — recognising these early signs is the first step to helping them thrive.

Note:This article is for general informational purposes only and does not substitute professional diagnosis or treatment. Please consult a qualified professional for personalised support.

What Does It Mean to Be Neurodivergent?

The term neurodivergent refers to people whose brains process information in a way that differs from what’s considered “typical.” It’s not a deficit — it’s simply a different way of thinking, learning, and experiencing the world.

“Neurodivergence reflects natural differences in how individuals think, feel, and experience the world. It’s not something to be ‘fixed’, but rather understood and supported in ways that affirm identity and promote wellbeing.”

— Dr. Dawn Adams, Space for Me Programme Study (2023)

Neurodivergent children include those with:

  • Dyslexia
  • Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD)
  • Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)
  • Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD)
  • Dyscalculia
  • Dysgraphia

While these children may have specific learning disabilities, they also bring incredible strengths — creativity, unique problem-solving skills, and out-of-the-box thinking.

Recognising the Early Signs of Neurodiversity in Children

Dyslexia

Dyslexia is a specific learning disorder that primarily affects reading and writing skills. It’s not linked to intelligence — in fact, many children with reading difficulty are bright and creative — but they process information differently.

Early Signs of Dyslexia Parents Can Look For

Parents often spot signs of dyslexia in the early years of school, or even before. These signs may include:

  • Difficulty recognising letters and matching them to sounds
  • Struggles to learn the alphabet, days of the week, or nursery rhymes
  • Mixing up the sounds in words, such as saying “pisghetti” instead of “spaghetti”
  • Avoiding reading or becoming easily frustrated during reading tasks
  • Difficulty remembering sequences or instructions
  • Confusing similar-looking letters like “b” and “d”
  • Trouble with rhyming or identifying words that start with the same sound

Dyslexia often becomes more noticeable when children begin formal reading instruction, but the signs may appear earlier during play and language development.

Learning Difficulties Commonly Associated with Dyslexia

Dyslexia primarily affects literacy, but the challenges can extend into other areas of learning, especially in traditional classroom settings. These can include:

  • Reading at a slower pace or with frequent errors
  • Trouble with spelling and written expression
  • Struggling to follow multi-step instructions
  • Low confidence when asked to read aloud
  • Difficulty remembering what was just read, even if it was read fluently
  • Avoidance of reading and writing tasks altogether

While children with dyslexia may face hurdles in literacy, many show strong abilities in areas like problem-solving, storytelling, creativity, or hands-on learning. With early support and the right teaching methods, they can develop the skills and confidence they need to succeed.

Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD)

Autism Spectrum Disorder is a neurodevelopmental disorder that affects communication, social interaction, and how the brain works. Children may also have sensory disorders or difficulty with facial expressions, body language, or social cues.

Early Signs of Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) Parents can look for

Parents are often the first to notice that something feels different. Early signs of autism in young children may include:

  • Limited eye contact or not responding to their name
  • Delayed speech or language development
  • Repetitive behaviours, such as hand-flapping, rocking, or spinning objects
  • Strong need for routine and distress with changes
  • Intense interests in specific topics or objects
  • Lack of social engagement, such as not pointing to show interest or not playing pretend
  • Sensory sensitivities, like overreacting to loud noises, textures, or lights

These signs often begin to appear before the age of 3, though in some cases they may be identified later, especially in girls who might mask their symptoms. See a professional for a childhood autism spectrum test.

Learning Difficulties Commonly Associated with Autism

While not every child with ASD will have learning difficulties, many do encounter unique challenges in traditional learning environments. These can include:

  • Language and Communication Challenges
  • Social-Emotional Learning Delays
  • Struggle to stay on task or organise their work
  • Find abstract thinking (like problem-solving or predicting outcomes) challenging
  • Trouble focusing or staying calm during lessons
  • Have difficulty transitioning between activities

Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)

Children with ADHD often have trouble paying attention, completing tasks, and managing impulses. They may also show poor handwriting or struggle with basic skills in structured environments.

ADHD presents differently in each child. Some may be hyperactive and impulsive, others may appear distracted or daydreamy — and many experience a combination of both.

Early Signs of ADHD Parents Can Look For

ADHD can often be spotted in everyday routines. Some early signs include:

  • Constant movement or restlessness, even in calm environments
  • Difficulty sitting still during meals, story time, or classroom activities
  • Trouble paying attention or being easily distracted
  • Forgetting instructions or not finishing tasks
  • Acting impulsively — shouting out answers, interrupting others, or taking risks without thinking
  • Trouble waiting their turn or sharing
  • Losing things like toys, books, or school supplies frequently
  • Daydreaming or seeming “in their own world” for long periods

While it’s normal for young children to be active and impulsive, children with ADHD show these behaviours more often, and in ways that affect their daily life. See a professional for a childhood ADHD test.

Learning Difficulties Commonly Associated with ADHD

Children with ADHD may struggle with more than just focus — it can impact how they learn, process information, and succeed in structured school settings. Common learning challenges include:

  • Difficulty staying focused during lessons or completing homework
  • Trouble with organising tasks, time management, or following multi-step instructions
  • Rushing through work and making careless mistakes
  • Forgetting what they just learned, especially without repetition or visual cues
  • Poor handwriting or difficulty getting thoughts onto paper
  • Struggling to sit still or wait during long tasks, which can lead to frustration or acting out

Despite these challenges, children with ADHD are often creative, energetic, and quick thinkers. With the right support — including routine, structure, and positive reinforcement — they can learn to manage their symptoms and succeed in school and beyond.

Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD)

ADD is a subtype of ADHD, but without the hyperactivity. Children with ADD often fly under the radar because they’re not disruptive — instead, they may appear quiet, distracted, or disinterested. While they may seem calm on the outside, their minds are often wandering, making it hard to stay focused and absorb information.

Early Signs of Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) Parents Can Look For

Because ADD symptoms can be subtle, they’re sometimes mistaken for shyness, laziness, or simply being “dreamy.” Some signs to watch for include:

  • Frequently daydreaming or appearing lost in thought
  • Struggling to stay focused, especially during tasks that require sustained attention
  • Seeming forgetful — often losing things or forgetting instructions
  • Making careless mistakes in schoolwork
  • Appearing to listen but not retaining what was said
  • Avoiding tasks that require a lot of mental effort
  • Slow to complete tasks or needing frequent reminders to stay on track
  • Difficulty following multi-step directions

These behaviours can show up early in school life, but are sometimes not recognised until academic demands increase in later years.

Learning Difficulties Commonly Associated with ADD

Children with ADD may face significant challenges in learning — not because they lack ability, but because attention and memory are deeply connected to learning success. Common difficulties include:

  • Trouble with concentration during reading or listening
  • Difficulty remembering what they’ve just learned
  • Inconsistent performance — doing well one day and struggling the next
  • Poor time management or incomplete homework
  • Disorganisation with materials or assignments
  • Low motivation or confidence due to repeated frustration

Despite these challenges, children with ADD are often deep thinkers, imaginative, and capable of great insight. With the right strategies — like breaking tasks into chunks, using visual reminders, and offering plenty of encouragement — they can stay engaged and build strong learning habits.

Dyscalculia

Dyscalculia is a specific learning difficulty that affects a child’s ability to understand numbers and mathematical concepts. Sometimes referred to as “maths dyslexia,” it impacts more than just arithmetic — it can influence everyday tasks like telling time, handling money, or measuring ingredients.

Children with dyscalculia often have average or above-average intelligence, but struggle with numbers in ways that don’t match their abilities in other subjects.

Early Signs of Dyscalculia Parents Can Look For

Many children find maths tricky, but ongoing struggles with basic number skills may be a red flag. Look for these early signs:

  • Difficulty learning to count or recognising numbers
  • Struggling to connect a number with the quantity it represents
  • Mixing up maths symbols like +, −, ×, and ÷
  • Problems with number patterns, sequencing, or skip counting
  • Taking a long time to complete basic maths tasks
  • Difficulty telling time or understanding the concept of time
  • Struggling with directions, spatial awareness, or measuring things
  • Avoiding maths-related tasks or expressing anxiety around numbers

These challenges often become more noticeable in the early years of school when children begin learning basic numeracy skills.

Learning Difficulties Commonly Associated with Dyscalculia

Dyscalculia can affect learning in both obvious and subtle ways. While it’s centred around maths, it may also influence memory, logic, and confidence in learning. Common difficulties include:

  • Trouble learning and remembering maths facts (like times tables)
  • Difficulty understanding place value, estimation, or maths strategies
  • Slower processing speed when doing maths calculations
  • Problems with budgeting, telling time, or following sequences
  • Anxiety or frustration during maths lessons
  • Avoidance of number-related games, homework, or classroom participation

Children with dyscalculia may feel discouraged when their efforts don’t match their results. But with targeted support, visual learning tools, and lots of encouragement, they can gain confidence and develop practical strategies to manage everyday maths.

Dysgraphia

Dysgraphia is a learning disability affects fine motor skills, handwriting, and written expression. Children with dysgraphia often know what they want to say but struggle to physically get the words out in writing. It can make schoolwork frustrating and affect confidence, especially as writing demands increase with age.

Early Signs of Dysgraphia Parents Can Look For

Signs of dysgraphia can show up early, especially when children begin to write more frequently at school. Here’s what to look for:

  • Messy, inconsistent, or hard-to-read handwriting
  • Holding a pencil awkwardly or with excessive pressure
  • Difficulty spacing letters or writing on the line
  • Trouble forming letters or remembering how to write them
  • Fatigue or complaints of hand pain when writing
  • Spelling words phonetically or inconsistently
  • Difficulty putting thoughts into written words, even when spoken language is strong
  • Avoidance of writing tasks altogether

While many kids have messy handwriting at first, children with dysgraphia often don’t improve with practice alone and may show ongoing struggles despite support.

Learning Difficulties Commonly Associated with Dysgraphia

Because writing is used across all subjects, dysgraphia can impact learning in many ways — even in subjects that don’t seem writing-heavy. Common challenges include:

  • Slow writing speed, making it hard to keep up with lessons
  • Trouble organising ideas in a logical order when writing essays or stories
  • Frequent spelling mistakes, even with familiar words
  • Avoiding note-taking or written assignments
  • Difficulty copying from the board or from a book
  • Frustration and low confidence with written work

Children with dysgraphia are often bright thinkers with lots of ideas — they just need support to bridge the gap between what they’re thinking and what they’re able to write down. With early recognition, assistive technology, and writing strategies, they can still express themselves fully and succeed in school.

Other Early Signs of Neurodiversity Parents Can Look For

Not all neurodivergent children show clear-cut signs of a specific learning difficulty like dyslexia, ADHD, or autism. In fact, some children display early traits that are more subtle or harder to categorise. These behaviours may raise questions for parents long before a diagnosis is ever considered. 

Some children don’t fit neatly into a diagnosis but may still show:

  • Delayed development (e.g., speech, toileting)
  • Emotional reactivity or emotional trauma
  • Trouble with visual perception or social environment
  • Fatigue after school due to masking
  • Difficulty using coping strategies in stressful situations

Why Early Support Matters

Without intervention, mental health conditions like anxiety or depression can develop. A trained professional can assess your child’s needs and identify mental disorders or intellectual disabilities if present. When caught early, neurodivergent children can access tailored support — both at school and at home — to help them succeed in ways that suit their learning style.

Don’t wait for things to “get better on their own.” Trust your instincts as a parent. If you sense your child is struggling, speak up and seek guidance.

Supporting Neurodiverse Kids at School

You don’t need to be a teacher to advocate for your child’s learning needs. In fact, parents play a vital role in shaping their child's school experience. Here's how to partner effectively with educators:

Communicate Early and Often

Let your child’s teacher know about your concerns. They may be able to observe your child in the classroom and offer insights. Teachers can also refer students for learning assessments or additional support.

Request an Educational Assessment

Assessments can provide a clearer picture of your child’s strengths and challenges. In Australia, this may involve speech pathologists, psychologists, or learning specialists.

Develop a Learning Support Plan

With a diagnosis or assessment in hand, schools can develop an Individual Learning Plan (ILP) tailored to your child’s needs. This may include:

  • Extra time for tasks
  • One-on-one support
  • Adjusted workloads or teaching strategies
  • Use of assistive technologies
  • Specialised Tutoring support

Seek Specialist Tutoring for Neurodivergent Children

Tutors experienced with neurodivergent learners can work wonders. They offer patient, personalised guidance, and often use multi-sensory techniques that resonate with the way neurodivergent kids process information.

Create a Neurodiversity Inclusive Environment For Your Child at Home

Whether your child shows signs of neurodivergence or not, building a home environment that embraces different ways of thinking, feeling, and learning benefits every child.

Parents who practice non-judgemental awareness, manage emotional reactivity, and embrace both themselves and their child through mindful parenting can foster a more harmonious, neurodivergent-inclusive environment at home. This approach aligns with research on neurodiversity-affirming practices and can significantly support your child’s wellbeing (Cherewick, 2023).

You don’t need a diagnosis to begin creating a supportive space. 

Home should be a safe space for learning and emotional support. Here are some practical strategies:

  • Celebrate Strengths, Not Just Struggles. Every child has talents. Whether it’s building with Lego, drawing, storytelling, or coding — celebrate what they can do.
  • Stick to a Routine. Structure provides predictability, which is comforting for many neurodivergent children.
  • Break Tasks into Bite-Sized Steps. This helps avoid overwhelm and builds confidence with each small win.
  • Use Visuals and Hands-On Tools. Many neurodivergent learners benefit from visual aids, diagrams, or tactile activities to understand concepts.
  • Practise Patience and Empathy. Remember — your child isn’t being lazy or difficult. Their brain is just wired differently. Patience and encouragement go a long way.

Next Steps

It’s okay to feel overwhelmed — navigating learning challenges can be emotional and confusing. But help is out there. From school support teams to allied health professionals, you're not expected to figure it all out alone.

Connecting with other parents of neurodiverse children can also be incredibly helpful. Sharing experiences, resources, and wins (big or small) creates a strong support network.

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